The following is an abbreviated version of Andy's speech at the luncheon. Andy "Pop" Courtney has been an integral part of the Byrnes family since his wife, Margaret, was hired in 1973 as Executive Secretary of The Byrnes Foundation. His contribution was recognized by the Scholars in 1981 when they named Andy an Honorary Byrnes Scholar.
My first impulse was to ask her if she was serious. If she thought I had lost my mind. Or, worse yet, if she had lost her mind. The question had been simple enough, "Do you want to help me take the Byrnes Scholars to the beach for a weekend?" My answer was just as simple. "No, I don't think so." When Margaret was employed by the James F. Byrnes Foundation in 1973, there were only about 35 students on scholarship. The first Super Weekend was in March 1975 and was attended by 27 students and 22 others. I wasn't one of those others as younger daughter, Karen, provided me with my out. She was then a senior in high school, a cheerleader, and had a basketball game that Saturday night. So it was, "Sorry, honey, one of us will have to stay home. Gee, I sure wish I could go, but, next year maybe." These words proved to be prophetic. The following year Karen was a freshman at Clemson, older daughter, Jane, was a senior at Furman, and my excuse had run its course. So that Friday afternoon in March 1976, I turned off the light in my office, closed the door, and drove a few blocks to the campus at USC. There I met the chartered bus full of young Byrnes Scholars on their way to Garden City Beach for a weekend of fun, fellowship and, as I soon learned, inspiration.
Four things stand out in my memory of my first Super Weekend.
First, I remember helping Jake Salley wash pots and pans, carry out garbage and generally be a handy man around the camp. I will always be thankful for having known Jake and sharing kitchen duties with him. Jake was the kind of man who showed you the way by example. He didn't say, "Now I want you to carry out the garbage;" he just took hold of one side of the garbage can, and you knew right away that he expected you to grab the other side. An untimely death from a heart attack took Jake from us long before we were ready to give him up. I hold Jake in my memory as one who exemplified the spirit of Byrnes Scholars.
The second thing that I remember about that weekend is a tall skinny sophomore from Clemson with straggly blond hair and a complete lack of ability to stand up on roller skates. Daughter Jane attended this Super Weekend, and I think his total ineptness in skating sparked some sort of protective instinct in her, and the next thing I heard about him was that he suddenly became interested in Furman University's beautiful campus and was making trips over there. Little did I dream that this tall skinny guy would someday be the husband of my first born daughter and the father of my grandson, Jacob, self-appointed Byrnes Scholar extraordinary. You present day students who recently may have struggled through an interview with the selection committee, note that I did say Dal Poston was skinny and had straggly blond hair.
My third memory of that weekend was of a young man who, during a sharing time, arose and spontaneously and in a cappella began to sing a beautiful spiritual hymn. That young man was Ronnie Daise, now known as "Mr. Ron" in my younger grandchildren's favorite TV show, Gullah, Gullah Island. In addition to his successful TV program, Ron has also authored a number of books.
The fourth thing that made a strong impression on me was to watch Hal Norton in action. There are few people with the unique leadership ability that Hal possesses. In a very short time he can change a group of near strangers, whether 50 or 150, into a close-knit unit, sharing, caring, laughing, singing, playing, praying, and worshipping.
Some of the fun things about Super Weekend cannot be fully appreciated unless they have been experienced personally. The highly competitive games of spoons don't sound like anything special unless you have been there and have the scars to prove it. Spontaneous times of singing in small groups as someone picks out tunes on a guitar or piano may actually sound a little corny, but they fill my memory banks as I think about the good times with you all. And, there are the involuntary dips in the ocean taken by some, and the not-so-sophisticated games that Hal always leads in. There was one scholar from an institution, the name of which I will not divulge, who learned the alphabet while playing Hal's nursery rhyme game. The skits put on by the students, often with the unwilling help of the old timers, are important parts of the beach trips. Where else could you see a family court judge play the part of sap running through the trees?
It goes without saying that I have missed very few Super Weekends since 1976. I have found the beach weekends along with the fall meetings and June luncheons to be highlights of the years following and I hope for many future years.
Being a part of the Byrnes Scholars family has not been just participation in Super Weekends. More importantly, through the years, it has been a caring relationship with a great group of young and not so young folks. It has been looking forward each June to this luncheon and renewing friendships made in March at the beach or at the fall meetings. Our relationship as Byrnes Scholars goes beyond race, sex, national origin, family background and even school affiliation. It is unique in that you wonder how you can love these people so much and yet see them only once or twice a year and even have difficulty at times remembering their names.
Now, for a few minutes, I want to turn our attention to the man responsible for all of this. The man who had a dream to help young people without one, or perhaps both, of their parents, in achieving a college education.
My first awareness of James F. Byrnes was his reelection to the US Senate, for a second term, in 1936. Prior to his election to the Senate in 1930, he had served seven terms as a member of the House of Representatives. I was a young boy in elementary school at that time. My father, who grew up in Aiken, was always quick to announce that he knew Jimmy Byrnes when he was court reporter in Aiken County. That year, 1936, he won a smashing victory over two opponents in the Democratic primary, which in those days was tantamount to election because the Republican party, at that time, was practically nonexistent in South Carolina. It was customary for all candidates to meet jointly in each county seat to present their views. These sessions came to be known as stump meetings. Walter Brown reports in his book, James F. Byrnes, A Remembrance, that Byrnes followed his practice of never mentioning his opponents by name and instead presented an affirmative statement as to why he should be nominated. His philosophy since he entered public life was that anything he said against his opponents would not show the voters why he would make a better public official. Mr. Brown also reports that Byrnes did not accept checks from contributors outside the state of South Carolina. He stated that when he returned to Washington he did not want to be under obligations to anyone except the people of South Carolina. I find this to be refreshing and in great contrast to present day campaign practices.
Mr. Byrnes served in the US Senate until June of 1941 when he was appointed to the US Supreme Court by President Roosevelt. In 1942 he resigned from the Supreme Court to serve as the Director of the Office of Economic Stabilization and then in 1943 was named Director of the Office of War Mobilization. In this position he became known, unofficially, as "the Assistant President." After the death of Roosevelt in April 1945, he was appointed by President Truman as Secretary of State. As a young GI in the European Theater of Operations, I was always proud to tell my buddies that this famous man, so much a part of our nation's WWII effort, was a fellow South Carolinian.
At the time of his death, the Spartanburg Herald wrote in its April 11, 1972, issue the following:
The public service of James F. Byrnes is enshrined in the history of his nation and state. His name will rank in the heritage of South Carolina. with those of Rutledge, Pinckney, Calhoun and Wade Hampton Here was a boy left fatherless as a babe, a boy who helped support his mother by selling newspapers and doing odd jobs. A boy who had to pass up not only college, but high school as well. A young man who studied to master shorthand and became a competent court reporter. He learned law (through reading and studying) and was admitted to the Bar at age 24. After serving 14 years in the US House of Representatives, and losing a race for US Senator in 1924, he moved to Spartanburg. Six years later, he went to the Senate by beating the man who had defeated him Coleman L. Blease. From there, he progressed to the highest councils of national government and international diplomacy.
In referring, at this same time, to the scholarship that he began, the Herald said:
Mr. Byrnes said service to people was the only monument he felt worth leaving. His scholarship program has helped more than 300 men and women who had lost one or both parents. It symbolizes the closeness he kept with people. Over and over scholars repeat the refrain: "I don't know how I could have gone to college without his scholarship, but he gave much more important things than what he gave in dollars." He didn't want a memory in brick or stone. He wanted a memory that would live after he was gone.
I think what we are doing here today verifies that that memory lives on.
Photo by Larry Cribb: Sandlapper® magazine founder and editor Bob Wilkins, left, and Del Roberts, later editor, examine 1950 scholar Rachel Oldham's portrait of Byrnes in 1970. The portrait was used on the magazine's first-ever cover.
This is what I cherish most of my Byrnes Scholars memories:
During our 20-year official affiliation with the Byrnes Scholars, 467 scholarships were awarded. From this number, some have gone on to receive master's degrees and some PhD's. Some have become medical doctors and nurses. Some have become lawyers and CPA's. Some, both men and women, have become career officers in our armed forces. Some are in full time church work as pastors, ministers of music or other staff positions. Some are pharmacists, others teachers. Some are self-employed; others are officers and executives in our industries. Some are engineers and others are architects. Some of our young women took on the noblest of professions, that of being a mother and devoting full time to caring for and nurturing a family. I believe that Jimmy Byrnes' vision and his desire to leave a monument worth remembering has been achieved. You, his Scholars, are a living monument to a great human being.
In return for their generosity and support, Mom and Pop Byrnes asked only two things from us: become the very best people we could become in life, and make sure their legacy of family continues for those who come after us.
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